Showing posts with label Acceptance with Joy: Turning the Frown Upside Down. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Acceptance with Joy: Turning the Frown Upside Down. Show all posts

Saturday, August 13, 2011

You May Have Moved to a Small Town If...

1) You've memorized ALL of the major streets in the first 2 days.

2) You've seen motorists being pulled over by bicycle cops on 3 different occasions.

3) Verizon has no service in your entire town and doesn't pick up a signal until you are 20 minutes outside the city limits.



Yes. We live in a VERY small town...and I think we're gonna like it. : )

Update

We left the Land of Enchantment the morning after my Mr's last final and have officially been somewhere over the rainbow for 1 week and 6 days. My Mr. started work 2 days after we arrived and loves his new job so far. It is such a gift for him to be teaching at a Catholic school again. We live in a beautiful old house (!!!) with wood floors (I won't mention the wallpaper...ahem), I found an OB/practice that I REALLY like here in town,  and craigslist has been VERY good to us.

Thank you all for your prayers as we continue this transition. Please keep them coming as baby #4 will be joining us on this side of the womb in only a few short weeks.

Sunday, July 24, 2011

Goodbye Toes!

This week I reached a new benchmark. Little #4 is now a little over 33 weeks along and it is no secret that I have been "putting on the pounds". It seems that one day I looked down and my pretty little *GULP* swollen pink polished toes were fully visible and the next day "POOF!" they were gone!



Goodbye toes!


The vain side of me says "Gosh you're getting BIG!", but the wonderful truth is that this is only one more physical sign that a baby is housed within me. What a beautiful reality that is!

Only a few more weeks little one. <3

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Words to Live By

"The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway.
For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway."
 
— Mother Teresa

Friday, July 15, 2011

Motherhood = A Calling

As a member of an on-line Catholic mother's group I am continually coming across intriguing articles about being a wife/mother/parent. I have SUCH a passion for learning about my vocation as wife and mother. Yesterday, one of the mothers in our group shared this article and I found it particularly intriguing and thought I'd share. It certainly puts my life as "mother" into perspective. Happy reading!

Theotokos - Holy Mother of God, Ora pro nobis.

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Cave.

I can't believe that I am admitting this to you, dear readers, but when I reach the point of fatigue that cannot be kicked, and there is no time for bed/nap/sleep in sight...and when five cups of joe just don't do the trick...(if you are a parent than I know you've been here)...I occasionally resort to this...




Terrible? Check.
Filled with sugar? Check.
Weakens my immune system to an unimaginable degree? Check.
Helps me to be a more charitable, loving, energetic mother for the last four hours of the afternoon and evening before my Mister (A.K.A. my hero/my knight in shining armor/the best husband ever) returns? Check. Check. Check.


Well, today is one of those days.

Sometimes it's a matter of charity people.


 Cheers! ; )

Monday, July 11, 2011

Bedhead and Breakfast

Each morning I wake with the littles between 6 and 7 am. I have NEVER been what you would call a "morning person" so getting up in the morning takes a LOT of will power love.

Regardless of the sacrifice, there is something wonderful about looking around the breakfast table at their heads of matted, crazy curls as they rub the sleep out of their bright blue eyes that makes each and every early morning worth it and reminds me of the absolute JOY that it is to be their mother.





Note: To those of you who are morning people...you know, wake at 5am, get your work out and prayer time in, have time to make and eat breakfast while reading the morning paper...

I am jealous...

sometimes.

Friday, July 8, 2011

Feeling Young(er)

Tonight as I was checking out at our local Wal-Mart I was asked to present my I.D.

I have been asked to present age verification for many things in my life but never for a 0.07 oz. tube of this...


Well, apparently you have to be at least 18 years old to purchase super glue these days.


I can't say that I minded though...in fact, after almost a decade and four children later, I was quite flattered.

I walked out of the store with a new spring in my step waddle and feeling just a little lighter and a little younger.

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

ch78 hdc1 dct FPdc3 BPdc3, sc1 st, slst 4 sk3...Translation Please!


Is it possible to get bored when you have 3 littles under 3?

Affirmative.

We have been in our "Summer home" for 4.5 weeks now and with only a couple bags of clothing, some toys, craft and learning supplies for the littles, a stack of library books (also for the littles), and the  food in the fridge...not to mention a Mister who is studying all day, most days...the down time (did I really just admit that I have "down time"?) gets a little bit boring. If you haven't noticed by now, I am the kind of gal who loves to have some kind of project going at all times.

Well, I have always wanted to learn to crochet and thanks to this boredom (and this lovely baby blanket pattern I found on-line), I have finally had the motivation to do so!

Closer view


Yesterday, the littles and I took a trip to Hobby Lobby (EEEE!!!) to pick out the perfect yarn and a crochet hook. What an absolute THRILL!

Later in the day, while the littles napped, I visited You Tube and found several videos on how to crochet.

I am now pleased to announce that I can actually read most beginner-intermediate level crochet patterns and am well on my way to starting my first crochet project ever!


Now it's your turn. What kinds of things have you always wanted to do/learn?

Friday, July 1, 2011

TNT!!!


Have you ever seen one of these tents off the side of the road in late June/early July??? 


 Well, for the last several Summers my Mr has been working under one. He works from 10 am until 10 pm (and sometimes even later) selling fireworks. It is long, hot, hard, exhausting work...but I think that deep down inside his masculine heart he loves the thrill of selling explosives by day and setting them off by night.

This Summer we just couldn't resist going back to G-town to sell fireworks one last time before our big move. So, last weekend we took up temporary residence in a friends RV while he worked 35 hours over 3 days (phew!), and we're off again tonight to spend a second weekend dreaming of stars, stripes, and TNT.


Have a safe and happy 4th of July!

Sunday, June 19, 2011

We Made It!

It has been a couple of weeks since the last time I wrote...I guess we've been a little busy.

We successfully packed up everything we own, loaded it up, stacked it in a storage unit, and officially checked out of our 2 bedroom apartment forever. In a nutshell, it was messy, chaotic, and stressful...dare I mention the gallon of paint my 2-year-old dumped "spilled" on the clean carpet...or the fresh sidewalk chalk art makings all over the just-washed front porch and windows...or the...I think not.We are relieved that that part of our move is over. On a different note...it was SUCH a blessing to have good friends to help us on this side of the move. It has been quite overwhelming to feel the love of God through those we love.

We have been living in Albuquerque, NM for 2 weeks now and currently reside in a lovely (furnished) 1 bedroom apartment. We are in love with this city and have had such a blast over the last few weeks. So far we have enjoyed visits to the zoo, aquarium, and botanical gardens and have gone to an Isotopes baseball game. We have also enjoyed many FREE activities including visits to multiple library programs (reading, singing, dancing, puppet shows, and more...we're looking forward to the upcoming magic show, petting zoo, and recycle man band that will visiting within the next several weeks), checking out and reading library books, a scenic drive up to Sandia Peek, a visit to PetSmart (the miniature aquarium/small animal zoo), a trip to the duck pond to feed the ducks, and outings to many new and exciting parks. It has been so much fun to live in a big city with all that it has to offer.

The littles (specifically my 2 and 3) are very much looking forward to this coming week because they are signed up to attend Vacation Bible School (with mommy and baby girl as tag alongs). If all goes well I think I'll sign them up for another one next week.

We'll see.

Thursday, June 2, 2011

The Little Orange Bottle

Yesterday marked 6 months together for me and my little womb-mate. I can't believe we've come this far already...it has all seemed very fast this time around.

Well, if you are a mother, you know that being right around 6 months along = an appointment with a little orange bottle and a needle...two things I dislike...I'll call it "redemptive suffering".


Bottoms up!

Saturday, May 28, 2011

The P.L.A.N.

We have been anticipating our (first) move for almost 6 weeks now and today we began our 1 week countdown. Since the last time I posted about our great big move, a couple things have changed. We are no longer moving to Missouri, but are moving somewhere over the rainbow (a.k.a. Kansas) instead. The reason for this abrupt change is that my Mister was selected to fill a science teaching position at a Catholic(!!!) school and was offered the right salary...how could we resist?

So, here is our plan:

We are moving to Albuquerque, NM in 7 days.

The reason we are moving to ABQ is that my Mister will be taking 3 Summer classes (8 weeks long) at UNM (pre-requisites for his physicians assistant program).

Between now and then, we have to pack up the rest of this house, move what is left to a storage unit, paint our beautiful red living-room white (it's a looong story), deep-clean the apartment (including all of the lovely white walls and trim that my littles have covered with love), shut off the utilities, turn in our change of address to every institution that we owe $$$ and to the post office, close out my Arbonne business orders, help throw a baby shower for a dear friend, and say goodby to our friends.


Once in ABQ we will live in a (semi) spacious extended-stay hotel room (i.e. full kitchen, full bath, bedroom/living room/dining room, fully furnished, utilities included, free wireless internet, free cable, and last but certainly not least, cleaning service!) bringing only 2 suitcases, some dishes, some toys, a stroller, and some educational materials. 

When my Mister is finished with his classes, we will pick up our moving truck (which happens to be the same dimensions as our current storage unit), drive it to our storage unit, pack it up, and drive it to Kansas.


Now, I know that you may be thinking that we are completely out of our minds to move into such a small space, with 3 small children, and almost nothing else...BUT, there are many perks to living in ABQ...I'll have to share them with you another day...right now, I am tired.


G'night.

Monday, May 16, 2011

Catching Up...

So much is happening/has happened in my life and in my heart lately. Here are some of my recent thoughts...


I love the month of May. I just love it. I love the blossoms on the trees and the flowers that spring forth from the earth. I love the singing of the birds and the sunshine that pours through my windows. I love that it is the month of Mary. I love the Marian hymns at mass and the beautiful tradition of the May crowning...speaking of, I really need to glue our statue of Our Lady back together so that we can have our home May crowning...

Lately I am re-obsessed (it hits me every Spring and Summer) with smoothies. I JUST. CAN'T. GET. ENOUGH!

It is such a blessing to have the opportunity and grace to house another precious child within my womb. I am often overwhelmed with the the beauty of this reality. And, I can't wait to find out if we are to welcome a little boy or a little girl into our hearts and home this September (2 weeks until the ultrasound! eek!).

We are leaving in 2.5 weeks and I will dearly miss our friends...sigh. And, there is still SO much to be done before we go.


My in-laws are coming to our home in 3 days! 

I love my husband more than words can express. He is such a loving, giving, caring man. I have been feeling the blessing of his presence in my life a LOT lately. It is an incredible gift to be married to my best friend.

Speaking of my Mister, he made a toddler bunk bed yesterday! Who does that?! He did such a great job! I can't get over that man. We'll sand and stain it later this week. I can't wait to show you the pictures!

Speaking of yesterday, my baby girl turned 1 (1!!!) I can't believe it! The day was simply lovely.

Library fines can be so EXPENSIVE! That's all I'll say about that!

I found (and bought) this INCREDIBLE  orange necklace at this little boutique I happened to pass through the other day. You may have heard of it...it's called Goodwill. (Pics another day)

Did you know that Tom's of Maine made a toothpaste for kids?! I JUST discovered it this weekend...and promptly escorted it to the checkout and into my home.



I have been listening to the Parent Trap soundtrack on repeat ALL weekend. SO GOOD! I had forgotten how much I love it. And, dance parties with toddlers are truly priceless!


And now, my coffee is beckoning and there are empty boxes waiting to be filled...


More later!



Ciao!

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

20.5 Weeks...


To my dear family and friends...by your request...

pictures!


















 

Note: These were taken 2 weeks ago (by my handsome Mister). I'll post current pics soon...I promise.


Friday, April 8, 2011

BIG NEWS!!!

My husband has been offered a position as a science teacher in Missouri(!!!)...which means that we will be moving in 14 1/2 weeks.

Missouri's State Flower - Hawthorn Rose


We will dearly miss all of our beautiful friends here in the great Land of Enchantment; they have been so good to us, have adopted us into their families, and have made this place our home away from home.

The reason that we are moving is that we are ready to live closer to our family, and to make a little extra money (we'll be able to live in a HOUSE(!)...with a YARD)!!!



Please forgive me in advance if I don't write as much over the next several weeks...this week I have been busy planning and getting ready for my boys' birthday party (I have had SO much FUN and can't wait to share the pics with you all). Next weekend we'll be having a HUGE moving sale. The following week is Easter (already?!!!). And the week after that, we'll be moving all of our belongings into a storage unit here in town, and moving our family into temporary housing (2 hrs away, for 8.5 weeks) so that my Mr can take 4 summer classes. Phew! We'll be busy!


And now for some fun! How many of you knew that Missouri is called the "Show Me State" hmm? For 49 more completely random facts about the state of Missouri click here.






Have a great weekend!

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Things That Make Me Go "Hmmm"...







Shadrack, Mishak, and Abendigo???



There's no trap big enough for the critter who got this cheese...



Sand for breakfast...



mmmm... 






No words...just hmmmm...



Hope this put a smile on your face! Have a great day!



Friday, March 11, 2011

A Fun Solution!

Our new "backyard" (aka the fun-zone!) comes complete with a sandbox...


under-the-bed storage roller + 2 bags of Quickrete Play Sand (2.99 ea. @ Home Depot) = sandbox!

Look at that QT patutie! (...and please ignore my bare feet)

...a chalk/painting area...








Yes. They are painting (read: cleaning) with water!



 ...and a basketball court!





And after providing my littles with hours of entertainment, it can all be covered and put to the side.






So, what do you think? Do you like our new "backyard"?


Note: If it is too cold outside to leave the door open, I set up a baby monitor on the porch so that I can keep an ear out for the boys while I put the baby to sleep or clean up around the house.

Thursday, March 10, 2011

A "Teensy" Little Problem...

For the last couple of years my family has lived in a two-bedroom apartment, on the upper-level, of a four-plex...with no yard.

Now I don't know about your little people, but at our house 3 littles + being cooped up in a tiny little house for an entire day = disaster waiting to happen.

My littles have a LOT of energy. I try to take them on a walk each morning and to the park each afternoon but some days, even that is not enough. My littles just want to be outside...all. of. the. time. Any season, any weather, any time of day. They love everything about being outside, especially the sunshine,  the fresh air, and the SPACE.

The reason this is problematic is because my 9 month old needs to eat and sleep in the mid-morning and mid-afternoon and cannot be left inside alone (duh)...and I have other things to do around the house that cannot be neglected all day, everyday, so that I can be outside supervising my boys.

Well, my Mr and I are not "problem" people...we are "solution" people...and when you live in a teensy little home, with 3 littles, and no backyard, THAT is a problem. It calls  for some creativity...just the kind of challenge we like.


Here is a picture of our "backyard" before...


boring...

 Do you want to see our creative solution?


If "yes", than you won't want to miss tomorrow's post! ; ) 




Thursday, February 17, 2011

Laundry Day

Each Thursday and Saturday are laundry days at our house. Today is Thursday...I generally dread this day but today I am inspired to take on the task and to do it with joy.



The day started out as usual. breakfast, prayer, etc...then I faced "the giant"...literally the giant pile of laundry (8 loads!) in my hallway. Daunting. I separated all of the laundry and went (mentally griping all the way) to the laundry room closet to start the first load...when who did I see peering out from between the hanging coats but Our Lady herself! Here's a picture to prove it.


It is amazing how an image can change your entire outlook. I see this image every time I open the laundry closet door but today it touched me in a new way.

I sometimes have a hard time relating to Our Lady because...well because she's PERFECT! AND she has ONE child who also happens to be PERFECT! But today it hit me...Mary had a LOT of work to do that because of modern conveniences I do not have. I mean I stress over eight loads of laundry but in order to wash her family's clothes she had to work HARD...ALL DAY...hunched over a bucket or stream...scrubbing with her bare hands...knowing she still had dinner to prepare (no fast/frozen food back then ladies and gents) and despite all of this she did not have a thought of complaint but instead said "Fiat", "let it be done to me according to Your Word". What a woman! I want to be more like her!

So today I am just grateful. I guess eight loads in my automatic washer and electric dryer aren't as bad as I thought...after all.